Part of my vocabulary for talking about love and attraction used different “colours” to talk about different kinds of love.
Category: Editorial
On Being an Evangelist
Over the course of my adult life, I've grown into a devout evangelist for asexuality.
Aromanticism and Fiction: A World Without “Romance”
When creating one of my story worlds, I decided I wanted to give it a different way of talking about romantic relationships. Not necessarily better, just different.
Platonic Dating, or, as I Like to Call It, “Dating”
Why should we pursue romantic relationships actively and purposefully while expecting platonic ones to just happen?
Unhappiness, and Other Unexpected Blessings
Taken as a whole, my life today is happier than it’s ever been.
Dressing as an Asexual, Part 2: Practice
What kinds of clothing do I actually like to wear?
Dressing as an Asexual, Part 1: Theory
What is the relationship between my gender identity, sexuality, and wardrobe?
Leia Organa and Other Awesome Princesses
The best princesses – like the best heroes – are the ones who put the needs of others before their own.
Why Love Languages Matter
It’s not that I think the official model of the Five Love Languages is perfect, but I do believe that more understanding and appreciation of love languages would be very beneficial.
The Relationship Between My (A)sexuality and (A)romanticism
Is there a place within the aromantic community for me?
