Being demisexual means I don't purse sex the way I'm "supposed" to, but sometimes desire it when I'm not "supposed" to. For a long time, I was ashamed of both of these things.
It’s not that I think dichotomies like “asexual”/“allosexual” and “voluntary celibate”/“involuntary celibate” are meaningless. But I find them, at best, an awkward fit for my own experience.
I dislike toxic masculinity in heroes, but am much more tolerant of it in supporting characters. Why?
My friends are buying houses, getting married, and having children. Do they still have any room in their lives for someone like me?
Of the many labels out there, how many would I claim as my “identity”?
A roundup of all my Alan Rickman reviews, and some thoughts on the series.
The ace community is commonly divided into those who experience romantic attraction and those who don’t. But what if you're neither?
The thing about being platoniromantic is that, until very recently, there was no vocabulary to describe it.
Some vampires invite, not just sexual readings, but asexual readings.
I respect your right to ship. Please respect my right not to.