While I may be distancing myself from society at large, I’ve had ample opportunity to spend quality time with people I like.
Category: Editorial
Rey and Other Heirs of Choice
Rey reflects Han, Luke, and Leia's choices and values. And that makes her worthy to be their comrade and the heir to their legacy.
On (Not) Being a Woman
As with sexual and romantic orientation labels, I’ve found it hard to find a gender label that fits me.
Growing Up Platoniromantic: Colours of Love
Part of my vocabulary for talking about love and attraction used different “colours” to talk about different kinds of love.
On Being an Evangelist
Over the course of my adult life, I've grown into a devout evangelist for asexuality.
Aromanticism and Fiction: A World Without “Romance”
When creating one of my story worlds, I decided I wanted to give it a different way of talking about romantic relationships. Not necessarily better, just different.
Platonic Dating, or, as I Like to Call It, “Dating”
Why should we pursue romantic relationships actively and purposefully while expecting platonic ones to just happen?
Unhappiness, and Other Unexpected Blessings
Taken as a whole, my life today is happier than it’s ever been.
Dressing as an Asexual, Part 2: Practice
What kinds of clothing do I actually like to wear?
Dressing as an Asexual, Part 1: Theory
What is the relationship between my gender identity, sexuality, and wardrobe?
