As with sexual and romantic orientation labels, I’ve found it hard to find a gender label that fits me.
Category: Editorial
Growing Up Platoniromantic: Colours of Love
Part of my vocabulary for talking about love and attraction used different “colours” to talk about different kinds of love.
On Being an Evangelist
Over the course of my adult life, I've grown into a devout evangelist for asexuality.
Aromanticism and Fiction: A World Without “Romance”
When creating one of my story worlds, I decided I wanted to give it a different way of talking about romantic relationships. Not necessarily better, just different.
Platonic Dating, or, as I Like to Call It, “Dating”
Why should we pursue romantic relationships actively and purposefully while expecting platonic ones to just happen?
Unhappiness, and Other Unexpected Blessings
Taken as a whole, my life today is happier than it’s ever been.
Dressing as an Asexual, Part 2: Practice
What kinds of clothing do I actually like to wear?
Dressing as an Asexual, Part 1: Theory
What is the relationship between my gender identity, sexuality, and wardrobe?
Leia Organa and Other Awesome Princesses
The best princesses – like the best heroes – are the ones who put the needs of others before their own.
Why Love Languages Matter
It’s not that I think the official model of the Five Love Languages is perfect, but I do believe that more understanding and appreciation of love languages would be very beneficial.
