Here is the round-up of submissions to the September 2018 Carnival of Aces.
How might our ideas about shipping be different if an asexual discourse had existed in the 1990s?
What was it like to be asexual in a world without AVEN?
How long have I been out as asexual? That's a complicated question. Here's my complicated answer.
Being demisexual means I don't pursue sex the way I'm "supposed" to, but sometimes desire it when I'm not "supposed" to. For a long time, I was ashamed of both of these things.
It’s not that I think dichotomies like “asexual”/“allosexual” and “voluntary celibate”/“involuntary celibate” are meaningless. But I find them, at best, an awkward fit for my own experience.
My friends are buying houses, getting married, and having children. Do they still have any room in their lives for someone like me?
Here is the round-up of submissions to the January 2018 Carnival of Aces.
Of the many labels out there, how many would I claim as my “identity”?
This month's Carnival of Aces is about Identity, what it means and how we construct it.