Here are the posts I’ve published that aren’t movie reviews.
Site Announcements
- One Year of Ace Film Reviews
- Call for Submissions: January 2018 Carnival of Aces: Identity
- Carnival of Aces Round-Up: Identity
- Call for Submissions: September 2018 Carnival of Aces: Asexuality Before AVEN
- Carnival of Aces Round-Up: Asexuality Before AVEN
- Ace Film Reviews Turns Two
- Third Anniversary Post
- Year Four in Review
- Call for Submissions: February 2021 Carnival of Aces: Comparing Ace Spaces
- Carnival of Aces Round-Up: Comparing Ace Spaces
- Call for Submissions: September 2021 Carnival of Aces: The “We” of Me
- Carnival of Aces Round-Up: The “We” of Me
- My Fifth Year of Blogging
- Now We Are Six
- Seven Years of Blogging
The Nother
Growing Up Platoniromantic
“Platoniromantic” is a subcategory of “quoiromantic” that means unable to distinguish “romantic” from “platonic” feelings and/or experiencing “friendship” and “romance” as the same thing. These posts are part of an ongoing series about my own experiences as a platoniromantic person and how they have shaped my life. They are listed, very roughly, in recommended reading order.
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: Heartbreak
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: Questioning, Exploration, & Mislabelling
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: Alienation & Belonging in the Asexual Community
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: Kissing, Hand-Holding, Bed-Sharing, etc.
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: That One Time I Had a Boyfriend
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: The Problem with Shipping
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: Colours of Love
- Growing Up Platoniromantic in Five Songs
- Growing Up Platoniromantic: Happy Endings
And a closely related essay…
Media Analysis
- One Year after Alan Rickman
- The Alan Rickman Masterpost
- A Century of Vampires
- Viewing Aceness: Canons, Headcanons, and Icons
- Do Ace Stories Contribute to Compulsory Sexuality?
Star Wars Essays
- Luke Skywalker and Other Celibate Heroes
- Han Solo and Other Toxically Masculine Sidekicks
- Leia Organa and Other Awesome Princesses
- Rey and Other Heirs of Choice
- Finn and Other Underused Characters of Colour
- Poe Dameron and Other Important Muggles
- Han, Luke, Leia, and Reckless Friendship
- Luke Skywalker and His Love Interests (The Original Trilogy)
X-Files Essays
- Mulder, Scully, and the Original Shipping Wars: A Tiny Piece of Ace History
- On Being a Noromo – from The Realm of Asexual Possibility
- To Dana Scully, on Her 55th Birthday – from The Realm of Asexual Possibility
- Fox Mulder and Female Desire – from The Realm of Asexual Possibility
- Negative Space: U.S.T., Asexuality, and The X-Files – from The Realm of Asexual Possibility
- Season 6 and the Ace!Scully Headcanon – from The Realm of Asexual Possibility
- Ace Moments from the Later Seasons – from The Realm of Asexual Possibility
Asexuality Essays
- Demisexuality: Another Way to be Ace
- Ace Pride, or If We Had a Parade, Who Would March in It?
- Relationship Education: A Different Approach to Sex Ed
- Asexuality and Academia: My Awesome Year of Grad School
- Expecto Patronum: Seeking Identity in a World of Labels
- Asexual, Allosexual, and Other Labels That Don’t Quite Fit
- Shame, or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Accept My Sexuality
- Stages of Coming Out: My Journey to Ace Identification
- How the Carnival of Aces Helped Shape My Blogging Experience
- Asexuality: A Blessing I Wish I Had
- The Relationship Between My (A)sexuality and (A)romanticism
- Why Love Languages Matter
- Dressing as an Asexual, Part 1: Theory
- Dressing as an Asexual, Part 2: Practice
- Unhappiness, and Other Unexpected Blessings
- Platonic Dating, or, as I Like to Call It, ‘Dating’
- Aromanticism and Fiction: A World Without “Romance”
- On Being an Evangelist
- Someone to Share My Pandemic With
- Why I Blog
- Asexuality: Not Just for Asexuals Anymore
- A Club That Would Have Me as a Member
- Where Is My Home?
- Family: Wondering What Could Have Been
- I’m Asexual Like Han is a Skywalker
- Why “Who-Not-How” Doesn’t Work for Me